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    Thursday, January 12, 2012

    Real Marriage- Book Review

     Well, the internet is abuzz with talk about this book and not all of it is good, in fact many are super critical of this book and it's content.

      Let's get into what the book is about: #1 It's about marriage.  This should be a no brainer since this is the title.  However, it's not just about the good stuff in marriage, there are some real-life stories of pain in this book.  Mark and Grace expose their marriage to the world and open up the harsh realities they've faced within their marriage.  When it comes to talking about REAL marriage, this book is one of the best (Love and War being number 2)!

      Mark and Grace share with supreme transparency the shame, mistakes and horrendous attitudes they held towards one another during their marriage.  Grace goes on to discuss how her shame shut her down from Mark and how her shutting down Mark confesses he desired to shut her out.

      Never in a book have I seen such openness with the pain and shame.  Marriage is tough and requires work.  Secondly, this book is about Friendship.

      Mark and Grace contend that marriage, in order to be lively, effective and lasting needs to have friendship, a deep loving friendship.  Mark and Grace explain how they failed and found success int the realm of friendship and they lament the fact that no marriage books they read (over 180 by the way) had a lengthy explanation or admonition of friendship in marriage.  That point scared me too, so I am excited that Mark and Grace wrote this book, highlighting friendship within marriage.

      Thirdly, the book is about sex.  Real Marriage has the most frank sex talk I have read in a "marriage book".  Mark and Grace tackle issues that many others gloss over and go into specific, biblical detail about what types of sex is OK and not OK.  They answer tough questions, many Christian couples ask about oral sex, anal sex and on for married couples.  They are true to the Word and make sure one knows they are rooting what they say about sex and marriage in the Bible.

      My favorite quote from this book is "Your spouse should be your standard of beauty" which they quote throughout the book several times.  It means that your wife or your husband is what is beautiful to you, do not measure them against others but make them to be the most beautiful person you know.

      Many of you who read my blog know I like Mark Driscoll and admire much of what he says (although not agreeing with all of it, nor in the tone he presents it).  This book is no exception.  Although I don't always agree with everything he says I admire his courage and agree with most of what he discusses both in ministry and in this book.

    Much of the negative controversy surrounding this book is unfounded, stated by people who read a chapter or maybe two but read it with their own filter.  I give it a 4/5 and would recommend it to most married couples I know.

      I think the only thing that really bothered me in the book was nearing the end where Grace and Mark are sharing their differences that have caused contention in their marriage.  One of them is about time.  Grace is perpetually late and Mark is the 15 minutes early is on time kind of guy.  Grace states that she now sees her perpetually late attitude as sin, but Mark simply says he has to be more patient with his wife and mentor her better in time management...yet does not confess his frustration and downright mean anger with his wife as being a sin.

    To some, this may seem a moot point, and I think Mark would say: "I think it's a sin" (at least I hope so).  This only elevates his critics rebuke of him being the great husband who is patient with messed up wife (which was a criticism of this book).

      All in all it's a good book and worthy of the read. If you want to get a copy, here is the best place: http://www.amazon.com/Real-Marriage-Truth-Friendship-Together/dp/140020383X/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1326398926&sr=1-1

    Monday, September 26, 2011

    Has God Spoken?- Book Review

     Many books have sought to disprove the Bible;  others have been written to prove the Bible is the Word of God.  This book is written with such an intent and it does a great job!

      This is my second Hank Hanegraaff book and I was just as happy with the second book of his as I was with the first.  Hank expertly takes on most of the criticism against the Bible and shows how the arguments against the Bible have little to no merit.

      We find ourselves in a precarious place in history where the world would like to discredit the Scriptures and even factions within the church challenge it's validity, so a book like this is most very welcome into the fold of Christian literature.

      I have heard, read or studied most of the points Hank brings in this book, but never have I seen such a compelling and comprehensive defense for Scripture.

        This book will help anyone grasp how in fact the Bible is the Word of God.  They will also see how history, astrology, archeology and many other scientific branches help prove the truths of Scripture.  Hank takes you into each argument; shares what many in opposition to the Bible think and using the same modes the opposition used to disprove certain aspects of the Bible, he uses to prove those same aspects of the Bible.

      I am sure I will use many of the facts found in this book to show those who ask how true the Bible is.  The mere fact that is has been around for thousands of years without distortion is in and of itself a miracle, much less the prophetic words coming true.

      I think this book is particularly compelling for people under the age of 30, where much of the recent debate has waged war on this age group and challenged them to see for themselves if the Bible really is true and useful for using as a guide for life.  Many, if not all of the normal questions about the Bible's truth and validity are posed and answered in this book.  Don't miss out!

      In conclusion to my review here, I would like to say it is important to not only believe in the Holy Scriptures but to have an educated defense as to why the Bible is truly inspired and not just a fictional tale of feel good, moral lesson stories.  This book truly gives the education needed in order to give an answer to those who ask about the Bible!

    Wednesday, April 20, 2011

    Unleashed- A Book Review

      This book by Erwin is a re-release of his older book titled: The Barbarian Way.  Usually, I despise re-releases because it is a poor attempt at getting people to buy a book that has a big named author on it that they already bought or they hadn't yet bought.  Basically, it usually boils down to money.

      Not so with this book.  Erwin shares in the very beginning that he felt the message was constrained because of it's title and that it was seen as a book written to just men.  This was not Erwin's heart for the book, so it has been re-released with a new title and a new cover to show it is for all believers, not just male believers.

      Let me first start by saying I really enjoyed this book.  Erwin writes in a winsome, story-telling manner that sucks the reader in and makes them desire more.  I found myself reading this book in two days time, while having full, busy work days!  Erwin's ability to capture a God-centered truth and expound upon it is pretty incredible and this book is a testament to his giftedness.

      The book is broken up in 4 chapters: The Barbarian Invasion; The Barbarian Call; The Barbarian Tribe and The Barbarian Revolt.  Each packs its own powerful punch and calls all Christians to stop being pew sitting, sideline hugging players in the war for this world and to be Barbarian crazed men and women fighting with a holy frenzy for the Lord!

    1. The Barbarian Invasion- One of my favorite quotes from this chapter is this: "If we have responded to the call of Jesus to leave everything and follow Him, then there is a voice within crying out, "Fight for the heart of your King!"  Yet Christianity over the past two thousand years has moved from a tribe of renegades to a religion of conformists" (McManus 2011, location 171).  That is his main premise to the book, we need to be a group of renegades who storm this world for Jesus and not conformists. We need to be Wild, not tame.


    2. The Barbarian Call- My favorite quote from this chapter is: "The barbarian way is about love expressed through sacrifice and servant hood" (McManus 2011, location 458).  This is counter cultural even to most church cultures: serving rather than being served.  We need to be rebels against this mindset and we need to be a radical, crazy people of servant hood.

    3. The Barbarian Tribe-  My favorite quote of the whole book is this: "I think there's a problem when people talk about meeting God or knowing God and yet remain unchanged by God" (McManus 2011, location759).  We are to be a tribe marked by our king.  A tribe set a part and recognized as not civilized, but barbaric.  We need to be a radical people who are so moved and changed from the inside that we express this through our untamed love for the world.  We are a tribe marked by the one who loves us and who loves the world.  Are our marks displaying our allegiance to our king, or to something or someone else?

    4. The Barbarian Revolt-  "Domesticated Christians are far too willing to abdicate the battle for the soul of the world" (McManus 2011, location 1167).  We as a Christian whole care very little for the world and are far to willing to leave the battle at the expense of many souls.  The battle is tough and we need to be protected but leaving the battle is not barbaric, it's childish and selfish.  We are to revolt against the enemy and wage war against him and his minions.  The more civilized we become, stepping away from our barbaric roots, the more we step away from battle we should be fighting.

      This book challenged me and caused me to step back and ask if I am Unleashed and living in the Barbarian Way.  One of Erwin's other striking quotes was this: "Barbarians live as if they are naked before God and naked before men...The barbarian hides nothing before God, and his tribe battles naked and unashamed" (McManus 2011, location 1407).  This I believe is one of the key points to fighting this battle as on cohesive Barbaric unit: nakedness.  We must be real and raw in this Battle!

      I strongly recommend you pick this book up.  I rarely give such high praise to books, but this one is well worth it.  It will challenge all believers to look at their lives and ask if they've been a Barbarian lately!


    *Thanks to  Thomas Nelson Publishers for the opportunity to read this book in exchange for my honest review. *

    Wednesday, February 23, 2011

    Who is My Shelter--Book Review

    Neta Jackson has written the fourth installment to her Yada Yada House of Hope novel, "Who is my Shelter?"  Readers will continue on life's journey with Gabby, the main character of the series.

      The first installment of the series jumped off with connecting the reader to Gabby and ended on a shocking note, which caused readers to delve deeper into Gabby's story.  This book is gripping, redeeming and exhilerating, as all of Neta Jackson's books are.

      Here, we see Gabby's wayward husband coming back to Gabby desiring reconciliation and the awefully hard choices that Gabby faces as a result of this new desire from the husband who kicked her out.

      Gabby seeks solice from God and finds his blessing her in the House of Hope in ways she didn't expect.  The series really captures the life of Gabby and brings the reader along desiring God's best for her and her children.

      This was a good read and if you are a Neta Jackson fan, I reccomend you get this book because it is well worth the read.  It is a much better ending than first book and wraps the story up very well.

      What will happen?  Will she reconcile with her husband?  Will she find that her true shelter is in God and no one or nothing else?  Get the book and find out!

    *I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for a honest review.*

    Thursday, January 27, 2011

    Slave- A Book Review

      Recently, I've slowed in my book reviewing, but when I was browsing the Thomas Nelson Books for Bloggers site (www.booksneeze.com) I had to read this book.

      The title alone caught me off guard and once I read the description of the book, I was hooked and set out to read it.

      John MacArthur is a fantastic Bible Scholar and here he does an exegesis on the word "Slave" found in the Bible.  He explains through his to the point way of teaching how this idea of Slave has not only been lost in our Bible translations today but also the important role being a Slave plays in our Christian lives!

      The first three chapters of the book take a look at how the Greek word doulos and the Hebrew word 'ebed, which are both words for "SLAVE" have been softened into "servant" most of the time and he explains how this has caused us to have a missing piece of understanding in our identity as Christians.  He then goes on to take what both Greek and Hebrew writers had in mind when they wrote out doulos and 'ebed by taking the reader on a journey to Greco-Roman slavery.

      This was an eye-opening 3 chapters, all basically new content to myself because the American view of slavery is scued by the recent history of American slavery.  He exposes the similarities and differences of Greco-Roman slavery, which helps the reader understand why our identity is a "Slave to Christ".

      After MacArthur delves into the role of "Slave" and the Greco-Roman meaning of slavery he then takes a 4 Chapter chunk of the book to talk about Masters in the Bible.  Slave and Master go hand in hand and to understand the totality of one, the other must be explained and understood.

      This deep discussion of God as our Master was also very eye-opening and humbling.  It helped me to refocus what my relationship with Christ truly is and helped me to better identify with myself being a Slave. 

      Lastly, MacArthur then describes Sin and Son ship and how we are slaves chosen to be sons as well to our Lord.  We let go of our first Master: Sin and embrace our new Master: Christ and he, in his love and Grace also makes us sons!

      The truth and beauty behind such a simple word in the Bible is incredible.  I really enjoyed the depth that MacArthur took to describe out the meaning of the word and to explain how we have lost it a bit in translation.  I love reading books that give me new ideas and explain new (to me anyways) Biblical concepts in an easy, simple to understand way.  MacArthur does that here.

      I highly recommend this book to any and all Christians because it is well written and the concept of us being Slaves to Christ is an important concept for us to grab a hold of.

      Go here if you'd like to order this book: http://www.thomasnelson.com/consumer/product_detail.asp?sku=1400316774&title=Slave&author=John_MacArthur

    Thursday, September 30, 2010

    Developing the Leaders Around You- A critical review

    In reading this book, one can see the passion in which John Maxwell has for not only leadership, but in reproducing leadership. As we look through the entirety of the book, we see over and over again the ringing theme of leading by creating other leaders. Having an environment where others can grow and become leaders themselves, even possibly taking over your current position are things to be desired and in John’s mind required in leadership. A lot of the principles John implements in getting this type of leadership off the ground and running are biblical and others are found to be more rooted in the ideals of the business world. Although nothing John says is anti-biblical, it does seem to the reader to be touched by the world a bit. We will delve into some of these principles from both lenses see what the Bible has to say on developing the leaders around us.


    “A leader’s success can be defined as the maximum utilization of the abilities of those under him” (Maxwell, p. 15), this quote epitomizes the whole first chapter: Am I Raising Up Potential Leaders? Maxwell in the end of Chapter One uses the story in Exodus 18:13-26 to explain this concept. The idea is to bring up leaders whom you can delegate the workload to. When Moses failed to do this, he was nearing burn-out when Jethro got to him and gave him the advice of seeking other people to help him with the everyday duties of life. Moses listened to the advice of his father-in-law and was the healthier for it. If a leader tries to do it all on his own, he will burnout and fall flat on his face. A Leader only has so much reach, but if he can multiply himself out, he can be all the more effective. Maxwell rightly pushes the principle of raising up leaders.

    The next chapter in Developing the Leaders Around You is entitled: Creating the Climate For Potential Leaders which continues the call to raising up leaders by first being a “thermostat, not a Thermometer” (Maxwell, p. 16-17). We have to be the ones (as leaders) to create such a place where leaders can rise up in our midst and be safe there. In the third chapter entitled: Identifying Potential Leaders we come across some very interesting principles which Maxwell dives into. Here, I will take a good amount of time to unpack two of these principles.

    First, John Maxwell says “The first thing to look for in any kind of leader or potential leader is strength of character. I have found nothing more important than this quality” (Maxwell, p. 47). The Bible also lauds very highly the idea of character, for it is something God desires to not be corrupted (1 Corinthians 15:33) and is a matter of the inner man, not the outer man. When Samuel went to find the future king, who would replace the bad king: Saul, he started to look on the outside of the man and neglected at first to look upon the heart (or character). God quickly re-directed him by saying: “But the LORD said to Samuel, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart" (1 Samuel 16:7, NIV). Here, I feel that Maxwell has got his ducks in a Biblical row, the next principle I have a harder time with.

    “Leadership is influence. Every leader has these two characteristics: (A) he is going somewhere and (B) he is able to persuade others to go with him” (Maxwell, p. 49). I have a hard time agreeing with this principle in locating a potential leader not because I don’t think leaders have influence, but because sometimes people are diamonds in the rough. God chose Gideon to be a judge over Israel in the book of Judges chapter 6. In this chapter of the book of Judges, we see a man hiding, we see a man with not just no influence, but negative amounts of influence. This dude is all alone, yet God saw deep into the man and called the leader out of him. I fear some leaders too easily pass on diamonds in the rough and so doing neglect to raise up an amazing future leader. Now, the gift of leadership should usually be present when we’re looking for potential leaders my point is to rather look at people while asking God, even those who don’t have influence. This chapter is chock-full of other principles in which to measure future leaders and to determine whether or not to invest your life into them. Some are rooted in Scripture and others, like the influence one above are arbitrary and sometimes lack the guidance of the Holy Spirit and pay too much attention on the outside. When looking for potential leaders, I think we need to first: consult the Holy Spirit, because He knows the man/woman and He should be a good judge of what they can and can’t be.

    Moving on to Chapter four in Developing the Leaders Around You, which is titled: Nurturing Potential Leaders, we come across more very well thought out and articulated ideas. Maxwell says “Once you have identified potential leaders, you need to begin the work of building them into the leaders they can become. To do this you need a strategy. I use the BEST acronym as a reminder of what people need when they get started with my organization. They need me to: Believe in them, Encourage them, Share with them, Trust them” (Maxwell, p. 61). I think this principle is amazing, because it’s not only Biblical, it’s Jesus Style leadership! Jesus implemented these four principles into his discipleship of the 12. In Matthew 4:19, when Jesus calls Peter and Andrew, he confidently says: “…I will make you fishers of men”. Here he is displaying his belief in them, knowing that they can accomplish the task he already has for them. In Matthew 16:17-20 we see Jesus encouraging Peter because Peter rightly stated who he was. In Matthew 10, Jesus shares his ministry with the disciples and has them live as he does and rely on God the way in which He does. Lastly, he trusts them by entrusting them with the mission of His life and this mission was the Great Commission in Matthew 28:18-19. He raised these leaders up and nurtured them so much so that he could leave the Earth, send His Spirit and know that these men he left behind would get the job done!

    In Chapter five, Maxwell shares insights on Equipping Potential Leaders. Now that we’ve picked them out and we’ve nurtured them, how do we equip them with the tools they need? One of the ways, John Maxwell says is to “Make the goals attainable. Nothing will make people want to quit faster than facing unachievable goals” (Maxwell, p. 96). Here is another principle of John’s that I can’t adopt. When I look at Scripture, I see story after story of God making impossible goals and using that leader to make it happen. I understand the idea of making potential leaders have easily achievable goals because these build their confidence and cause them to grow and eventually take on harder tasks. However, the goals shouldn’t always be attainable, biblically speaking. If all they do is rely on their own gifting, and can coast through our mentoring without us causing them to seek God for help on hard to achieve goals, we have FAILED as spiritual mentors! Again, I return to Gideon, who was asked by God to cut his soldier number WAY down to fight against an enemy with far more soldiers than God was allowing him to use. God does this to help the people see that the impossible is possible with God and God alone. He does this so they will know he is God!

    I could continue to venture on throughout the entire book and we will find similar principles with similar outcomes. However, I must highlight one more before I can stop writing. This principle is my favorite because it hits home the most to me. John says: “Be personally secure. To be a great developer of people, you must be personally secure, because taking your people to the height of their potential may mean they will pass you by” (Maxwell, p. 132). "And when Saul saw that he [David] had great success, he stood in fearful awe of him." (1 Samuel 18:15) Saul had messed up as king, so God had left Saul and stopped giving him favor. Due to Saul's wicked and unrepentant heart God was forced to choose another king. God chose David and began showering favor upon David and had His Spirit rest upon David.



    This success peaved Saul off to no end. Instead of celebrating that God was giving Israel a better king, Saul became jealous and sought to end David's life...further seperating himself from the Lord and the Lord's will.

    I will be the first to admit that as a leader it is hard to see those under you achieving success. It's hard not because I'm so great but because my sinful nature wants to be better than them. We judge ourselves in comparison to others. I've even found myself wondering why someone on facebook has more "friends" than I do....that's pretty freaking low and pathetic!



    However, we are jealous of others success, aren't we? Someone gets promoted over us, we get ticked. Someone younger than us gets more accolades for their effort than we do...it makes us freak out, because after all: we've been doing it longer!



    True, honest leadership I'm learning is leadership that develops others. A strong leader may be effective for 30 or 40 years, but if they invest in the up and comers, they celebrate the success of a younger person and seek to make that person better...they are investing for much longer! When we apprentice, our skills and our gifts sometimes get transferred...so even if we die off we are still a part of that younger leaders life!



    Saul sought only his glory and so he jealously kept all his leadership stuff to himself. There was no attempt to teach a younger guy how to be king. He hated the success of David and the moment it looked like David was blessed by God to take the throne was the moment Saul went ballistic.

    Friday, September 24, 2010

    Out Live Your Life--A Review

      One of the authors I read most is Max Lucado.  His books are always so readable and meaningful.  It is obvious that he takes great care in the words that he says and asks God to guide his pen as he writes.  His words have effected Christians now for 25 years, this book is the 25th year anniversary book of his published works!

      That in and of itself is an incredible feat and is worth honoring.  This book is a great addition to Max's legacy, not just because of its content and message but because of Max's generosity in donating all of the proceeds to World Vision and their efforts to heal a lot of wounds inflicted upon the  3rd world by AIDS, poverty and natural disasters.

      Max not only desired to effect change with the money from this book either.  Max wrote this book to challenge Christians to live out their faith and in so doing they will out live their lives.  The premise of this book is that if we put action to our faith, no matter how small those actions may seem to us, they can effect large scale change that will echo throughout our lives and beyond.

      To spur the reader on in this effort, Max delves deep into the book of Acts and relays to the reader how the early church was used by God to jump start a movement (Christianity) and in so doing out live their lives.  Max takes snippets from the book of Acts, shares in his uncanny way what it means and then each chapter is a call to action and a call to live out our faith.

      Max hands down is one of the best illustrious story-telling pastors of our generation.  He expertly gives a natural story that translates into a spiritual reality and allows most readers to catch the deeper meaning very quickly.  In this book, Max shares how anyone can be used for the Glory of God by God Himself, no one need worry about their social status, or their race, or their financial status, all that is needed is a willing heart.

      I think my favorite paragraph from this book is: "God calls us to change the way we look at people.  Not to see them as Gentiles or Jews, insiders or outsiders, liberals or conservatives.  Not a label. To label is to libel. "We stopped evaluating others from a human point of view" (2 Cor. 5:16).  Let's view people differently; let's view them as we do ourselves.  Blemished, perhaps.  Unfinished, for certain.  Yet once rescued and restored, we may shed light, like the two-stained glass windows in my office" (Lucado, p. 150).

      Not only calling us to act different, but to all around  live different is a huge and powerful thrust throughout this book and one that can be heard and felt throughout the pages it's written on.

      I will confess that this is not my favorite Lucado book (Facing Your Giants claims that title still) but it is a powerful read and is worth buying for sure!  Keeping in mind that all the proceeds benefit World Vision, that alone would be worth buying it, with the added bonus that you get a great, challenging book out of that donation...why not buy it?

      I was again blessed by Thomas Nelson and this book was made available to me through their blogging for books program called "Book Sneeze".  If you desire to buy this book click HERE.

    Tuesday, August 24, 2010

    The Skin Map- Book Review

      It's not often you recieve a free book from one of your favorite authors...but last week I did!  Stephen R. Lawhead has produced some amazing books of the past 25 years, all of which I own and most of which I have read.  When the The Skin Map became available on Booksneeze.com, I immidiately took advantage...and i wasn't disappointed!

      This book is different from Stephen R. Lawhead's recent books (which are more historical in nature), but hearkens back to his Empyrion series (which is more Science-fiction in nature).

     The Skin Map is a fast-paced, high adventure and very gripping read.  So much so that I received this book the day before I went on vacation and I finished reading it in two days! 

      After reading only a couple of pages, you find yourself wrapped into a world that can change at blink of an eye.  You follow the main character: Kit Livingstone down a tumbling road of discovery all across the Omniverse which brings with the reader deeper and deeper into the discovery of ley lines which are powerful lines where two dimensions meet and which people can travel between these dimensions.

      The danger comes because no one knows where or when these lines will lead a person to.  This of course all adds to the importance of the map, which is tattooed into a man's body.  The hunt is on to find the map, so their can be a deeper understanding of where these ley lines lead to.  The most important "train stop" is the "Well of Souls" which is the sole interest of the bad guys in the story.

      I wish I could continue, but you have to read it for yourself and trust me, you won't be sorry you did.  Had I not received this book for free, I would've bought it anyways because I love Stephen R. Lawhead and his amazing gift of story telling.  You've got to check this book out.

      The only thing that will drive you nuts is the ending...it tantalizes you into reading the next edition!

    I received this book for free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as a part of their book review program. I was not required to write a positive review; my opinions, therefore, are completely unbiased.

    Thursday, June 3, 2010

    Jesus Manifesto- A book Review

    This is a book about Jesus.  Leonard Sweet and Frank Viola are tired of Christians missing the point of Christianity, which is Jesus.

      This book does similar to what Jesus did in the end of Luke on the Road to Emmaus where it says: "And beginning with Moses and all the Prophets, he interpreted to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning himself." (Luke 24:27 ESV)

      The authors want to show the reader that everything in the Bible and everything in the life of the believer is and should be surrounded by, plunged into and seen through Jesus.

      They go to great lengths to share from the Bible how Jesus is the focal point of our faith.  They also go to great lengths to personalize the gospel, sharing how Christ at the point of our salvation dwells within us and we have the divine communing with us.  Below is a great excerpt from the book that to me is the sum of the whole book.

      "Not only does this Christ live in you, but more importantly: you can live by His life.  ...Christ who is our life. (Col. 3:4)  You have been invited to share life with your Maker and Creator.  And to top it all off, you have been made utterly, totally, fully complete in Him--here and now (Col. 2:10)  Why, then would you chase anything else? How can you be consumed with anything other than your Lord, Jesus Christ?  And how can you graduate beyond Him?  He is enough, even more than enough.  Jesus Christ is like a vast ocean.  He is too immense to fully explore, and too rich to fathom.  You are like a bottle. The wonder of the gospel is that the bottle is in the ocean, and the ocean is in the bottle."

       It's all about Jesus and Jesus is all we need.  This book is an easy read and a book worth reading.  We do (as the authors suggest) neglect the truth of the Gospel which is Jesus. His Spirit dwells within us and makes us new and it is only possible due to his death and resurrection.

      I was a bit disappointed in the heavy weight put on one member of the Trinity to the exclusion of the others...which taking chapter 10 into account they thought might be an issue, since it adressed that mode of thinking.

      All in all this book was a good reminder that our faith and what we "do" is really not us but is Jesus.  Without Jesus we can't do anything for God.  With Jesus we have the ability to do everything for Jesus by the empowerment of the Holy Spirit within us.

      I do recommend this book and whole-heartedly affirm the message.  More Christian books should be surrounded in and around Jesus rather than self-help or other trivial matters.  Sadly (as the authors point out themselves) much of what we have in the Christian Literature section these days are self-help, self-awareness, self-betterment and self-enrichment rather than Jesus.  I would also say much of what is preached from the American pulpit is the same.  Let's preach Christ and have a new "Jesus Manifesto!"

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    Thursday, March 18, 2010

    The Map- The Way of All Great Men

     How do Christian men embrace their true masculinity inside of church?  This book seeks to answer just that question.  David Murrow (the author of Why Men Hate Going to Church) desires the church to seek out true masculinity so the church as a whole can stop being so feminine.

      Part Davinci Code part Wild at Heart this book takes men (and woman as well) into the three journey's of a man.  David starts the first half of this book with an espionage story where one man (himself) discovers a secret hidden in code within the pages of the book of Matthew. The code is the Map of all men, the code that once unlocked could bring masculine balance back into the church.  Afterwards, he admits the story never happened but the core truth of the three journeys is true.

      David outlines the journeys as such: The Journey of Submission (towards the feminine) where men once saved choose to submit their lives over to Christ.  This is an ongoing process where men strive to weaken themselves so Christ can fill them.  This resembles the Jesus seen throughout Matthew 1-7 The Journey of Strength (towards the masculine) is the journey where men start speaking boldly and proclaiming truth whether or not it offends people.  This is the strong Jesus seen in Matthew 8-25. and The Journey of Sacrifice (reaching the summit, slightly back towards the feminine).  This journey outlines the finishing well of men.  This is where they start seeing the bigger picture and begin to find replacements for themselves in life.  Humbling themselves to hand over the reigns, share their wisdom and step back.  This is the picture of Jesus Matthew gives us in Matthew 26-28.

      David shows through the Gospel of Matthew, which does have these very strong divides in the character of Jesus, that Jesus went on these three journeys.  David easily catches the attention of the reader and captures the thought of masculinity very well in these three journeys.

      I enjoyed this book so much, that I think I will put together a "Map curriculum" to teach to my Middle School boys.  They need to hear this message, as do MANY churched men!





    I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

    Thursday, February 11, 2010

    Free Book * by @BrianTome

    Do you desire to live in freedom? That is the basic thrust of this book, living in the freedom God has ordained for your life.

    Brian comes to this book from the perspective of a pastor who has see way too much crap in the church to keep quiet any longer. His pastoral heart is to see not only the people in his congregation receive the fullness of Christ's freedom, but anyone who will read his book.

    God has more freedom for us in our lives than we could ever imagine and most of us don't live in that freedom at all.

    The idea of freedom is very attractive as well as understandable in the way Brian puts it in this book.

    Brian looks at certain places where people get hung up and don't live in freedom and those main places are: Fear, Religion, Identity, Strongholds, The Spirit World, Having "Squatters", the normal Highs, lows and victories in life, Community and Grace alongside of Truth.

    Those are of course his chapters in nutshells. All of his points I fully agree with and I truly enjoyed reading this book, and definitely have a ton to walk away with. However, I don't feel he was super original in his content. A ton of what he said has already been said, so that was a "down" point for me with this book.

    Brian comes as a pastor and with a pastors perspective and that alone engaged me to what he was going to say next. Brina proved through authentic writing and gut-wrenching honesty that he is not only a theorist when it comes to living free, but a practitioner! This came about by much life lived and many hard points along the way, but he is in fact a practitioner of what he talks about.

    BEST PARTS & Take-Aways

    My favorite parts of this book came about within the pages of "Strongholds" and his chapters on the Spirit World. Many times when it comes to Christian books, the Holy Spirit and the Spiritual battles we fight oddly go unmentioned. But here, in Free Book Brian goes right into the discussion and opens up the readers mind to the fact that we have a REAL enemy who doesn't want us in this fight. Also on strongholds, Brian is very blunt and in your face about the things you have allowed to gain a beach head in your life. This is not only pointed out, but he gives practical steps in how to hand them over to God. More to the point: on how I can hand them over to God!

    All in all, this is a practical book that deserves to be read.

    SILLY NECESSARY ADDITION

    I received this book free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

    Sunday, January 10, 2010

    Green by Ted Dekker


    Green: The Beginning and the End
    by: Ted Dekker
    Thomas Nelson
    ISBN: 9781595542885
    Audience: Older teens to Adult

    Having not read any of the series, I was shocked at how easy it was to get plugged into the narrative of this book. The story flowed amazingly and caught the reader up into it right away!
    Here's a quick look:

    Thomas Hunter fell asleep in our world in our time, and woke up 2000 years into the future, well after the Apocalypse had destroyed Earth. Thomas' group, the Circle, as well as his son, are no longer completely faithful to their god, Elyon. Thomas is heartbroken and discovers he must find a way to save the world from another Apocalypse. He must trust Elyon and allow his son to follow his own heart, while Thomas makes the difficult decision to leave the Circle to save them all.

    This was my 4th Ted Dekker novel, and will probably not be my last because he continues to pump out great stories!. I was a little nervous to read the last book in the series, and read it as the first. I had no idea what to expect with this book, Ted did a great job of making it all make sense for a new comer to the series!

    This book reminded me a ton of the Bible and in particular the story of David. David had to fight against a ton of odds similar to Thomas Hunter in this book, he also had to deal with obstinant children just like Thomas. This book has great Christian themes and amazing story telling!
    Thanks Thomas Nelson for another GREAT free book to check out from your blogger review program!

    Monday, September 28, 2009

    A Million Miles in a Thousand Years



    This book is about Donald Miller's journey while editing his life. He had the awesome oppurtunity to re-think his life when 2 guys wanted to make Blue Like Jazz (Donald's #1 New York Times book) into a movie. During the process, Donald came to the sad conclusion that his life was boring and he was not doing much to change that. He felt bad about himself and desired something more. This book is that vulnerable, heart-stopping journey. It will suck you in and never let you go.

    I have to be honest when I say this has been my favorite book in 2009! It is definitely better than Blue Like Jazz and it will inspire you as it did me.

    Along Donald's journey, I too realized what he realized: "I was not living a dangerous life". My dreams were weak and my resolve was weaker. I want to be a protaganist that makes something of this story (my life) just like Donald did. That is the true beauty of this book folks: It will rip you up. It will leave you strung out and needing God to pick you up because Donald's journey is so authentic that it will hit everybody, because we all deal with the same things...even if we're not as real about it as Donald was in this book.

    I was so struck by this book that I had to pre-blog before I was allowed to. I disguised it well, but if you desire to know the RAW feelings I had read that blog as well. It's titled: I'm Inspired.

    If you're thinking: "is this book worth $20 bucks in this economy". My answer is YES! If Thomas Nelson asked me to pay them for this book (because I got it free through the blogging program) I would gladly pay the $20 and the shipping...it's just that freakin good.

    Monday, August 31, 2009

    Donald Miller's NEW BOOK

    I have the great opportunity of reading A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller EARLY! I am also allowed to show you this "teaser" of the book. I can't post my review of the book until Sept. 29th (When the book releases) but it looks good! Check out the first 30 pages to wet your ailing Donald Miller appetite.

    A Million Miles In A Thousand Years by Donald Miller

    Read & Share Toddler Bible

    This is a GREAT Bible for young kids and is especially fun for Family Devotions!

    My wife and I recently had our first child in April and as we were thinking about what to use for family devotions with our little guy, I saw this book available for review. So I said I would check it out...boy am I glad I did! This is a great first Bible to go through. It has a DVD with 60 minutes worth of video on it and after each Biblical account, there is a fun way to make the story more interactive.

    In fact this Bible is so good that a Sunday School teacher could use it as curriculum and be alright. The stories are well written, the illustrations are fun as well as done with excellence. If I didn't review this Bible, I would've bought it. I may even buy it for my nephews and niece...it's that good.

    Here is the publishers description of the Bible so you have a "full gambit of information". However, I will say it is a GREAT resource.

    This new addition to the Read and Share TM brand contains 40 stories plus a 60 minute DVD including bonus features just for toddlers.

    The Read and Share Toddler Bible is a delightful way to introduce little ones ages one to four to God’s Word. Gwen Ellis’s engaging retelling of Bible stories along with Steve Smallman’s colorful art communicate God’s Word clearly to small tots with short attention spans. Stories from both the Old and New Testaments include all-time favorites ranging from Creation, Noah, Moses, Abraham, Isaac, Joseph, David, to Jesus’ birth, miracles, death, and resurrection.

    Monday, June 15, 2009

    Faith and Pop Culture (Review)

    "An eight-week study based on articles written by today's leading Christian authors and published by Christianity Today magazines; this remarkable study fosters deep, authentic, and relevant discussion that will challenge and grow any small group. Faith and Pop Culture takes on a variety of topics, including how God can speak to us through the arts, and how Christians should discern between entertainment that is meaningful and that which is destructive."

    I took the description off of the Thomas Nelson website, because I couldn't describe it any better. This book is an excellent discussion starter on all things media. Relevant, up to speed and to the point. I enjoyed reading this book and seeing that when it comes to media, I'm not the only one who has my opinions or convictions. This is good curriculum which could be tailored to ages High School and up. It is mold able and use able for many different small group settings, including Sunday School because it is so very Bible based!

    A very taboo topic for the Church today is the idea of media. The arts seem to have been forgotten, as well as the Artists who make the art (within the Church that is). This small group study re-opens the topic of artistic expression for the Church and tells why it is good, healthy and necessary. I highly recommend this book.

    I review for Thomas Nelson Book Review Bloggers

    Monday, April 27, 2009

    The Noticer by Andy Andrews

    This is the story of many people and one man. Jones, a seeming vagabond travels in and out of people's lives at the exact moment they need him to be there. With his brown leather suitcase and his sage advice, he helps people Notice things about themselves and their lives that they've never been able to see. It's Jones' gift...to be a Noticer. He gives others the perspective they lack and helps them get their lives off the deep end and back on the road.

    From the author himself, to many of the people in Orange Beach Alabama, Jones touched their lives. He saved Andy from a life of destruction and helped him along his way to a new perspective. He helps an angry, cheating business man gain new perspective and helps him see how he can be a better person, husband and businessman.

    Is Jones white? Is he Asian? Or, is he Hispanic? You will actually never find out. However, if you read this book you will see lives changed by the sage perspective that Jones brings...and you may find yourself within the pages of this book, needing a new perspective.

    This book is full of great perspective for any one. Andy, using the voice of Jones speaks to many people within this small book, from people with marriage problems to people with financial problems to people with suicide. It was a great book. It did indeed does give the perspective it talks about. It is well written and easy to see yourself in the story. This in part is helped by the author putting himself in the pages as well, being the second main character (other than Jones) within the pages of his book.

    Lastly, I think this book has come out at a time where people NEED a new perspective and need a Christ-like view (which I do believe Jones gives here and there). If you need a new perspective, pick this book up and read it. God will use Andy and this book to shine some light on your life.

    Connected to this book is something called the Noticer Project, in which the author wants us (the readers) to notice the 5 most important/influential people in our lives and personally thank them. Click The Noticer Project for more information.


    If nothing else, check out this video on YouTube. It's a great intro for anyone looking to get this book!

    Noticer YouTube Video

    Wednesday, March 4, 2009

    Christianity in Crisis!

    Let me start this book review by saying: This book took me by surprise. I didn't expect what I got hit with. In fact, the seriousness of the situation that this book presents was truly unknown to me.

    Hank Hanegraaff in this deep look into the "Faith Movement" opens up a can of worms most Christians ignore, or are unaware of. I think most level headed Evangelicals ignore people like Joel Osteen and his silly "Health and Wealth" gospel, but never know truly how heretical he and his groupies have gotten.

    Hank opened my eyes in Christianity in Crisis to the teachings of people I just blew off. He exposes them as wolves among the flock and rightfully so. He gives quotes, not sound bites mind you, but long, written and spoken quotes of these "Faith Teachers" that truly show the heretical, mind boggling theology they preach.

    Hank doesn't just end there, either. He takes each piece of "FLAWED" theology, unpacks it, rebukes it and gives the Christians reading it the means to stand against such heretical teaching. I was shocked at how much there truly was! Hank's book is well over 350 pages full of knowledge, combat skills and illumination. I've read some reviews calling Hank too "harsh" and "mean" however, the Bible tells us how to handle wolves...and it doesn't say to be "nice" to them!

    I can tell you that if you read this book, your eyes will be open to stuff you never saw before about such preachers as: Benny Hin, Joel Osteen, Joyce Meyer and TD Jakes to name a few. God will use this books to remind us that it is God (not words) that are all powerful. You can't speak your future into existence...only God can create it! We must rely on God, not our "Words of Faith" to get us through life.

    This book is a strong theological push against false teaching. I think it is well worth the time and effort to read and understand!

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    Friday, January 23, 2009

    The Gift of Psalms

    The Gift of Psalms is the most recent release of the Word of Promise audio series. This is different from any audio bible series I've ever encountered. It is set up as a 50 Day devotional, both in print form and in audio form. The audio is done by many well-known actors whilst the devotional reflection on each Psalm is written by Lori Jones.
    I've never been one to pop in the audio Bible and simply listen to a person read the Bible to me, but I found myself doing that with this series. I enjoyed the fact that Thomas Nelson also included the devotional reflection on the audio. Most audio Bibles of this nature wouldn't include that on the CD's. The acting voices, the music and the reading are as the English would say: "Spot On". It is very well done, and well written. I enjoyed this book cover to cover and audio track to audio track.

    The one thing that struck me about this series is you can now have a devotional while driving! If you have a CD player in your car, you can go through the Psalms, while reflecting on them on your way to work. As a pastor, I hear people always telling me how they wish they could have a devotional time in the car while they drive, but don't know how. I will recommend this as a way of doing just that!

    The layout of the book is this way: The Psalms are on the left and the devotional reflection is on the right, both the Psalm and the reflection take a page each, making this a 101 page book. It is easy to read and on very high quality paper. The only thing I didn't like about the book itself is that the title of the Psalm and the title of the devotional reflection were in a really flowery font that for me was hard to read. I was surprised at the quality of paper that Thomas Nelson chose to use while keeping it priced at only $20.

    This is a devotional that I believe will help commuters as well as readers alike to come closer to God. Well done book ad very well done audio make this a top rated devotional experience!

    Thursday, January 22, 2009

    Guard Against Lorena Bobbit Pt.3

    Part 3 of the Lorena Bobbit series and the last segment. I've discussed how this series was spawned in my heart and mind by reading Wild at Heart by John Eldridge and how I was simply taking some ideas he brought up in the book ad interacting with them here. This is the same as all the other three entries. His third "man-need" was every man needs a Beauty to save. John talked about the innate desire we men have to rescue the damsel in distress, search out a worthy woman and rescue her. This is why he says that in most "man-films" not only is there brutal, bloody battles, there is a romantic twist where the hero must save the woman, or must love a woman...Somehow, somewhere in these "man-films" this is true. Take for example Troy, Helen of Troy is the catalyst for the fighting. Gladiator has two woman, one is the dead wife of Maximus that he is romantically avenging, and the other is the Princess of Rome who has an attraction to Maximus. The list goes on and on.

    My point is this: I agree that this is an innate piece of manhood. However, it's hard for us to detect it and more often then not, it gets men in trouble. It gets men into trouble because when it comes to a Beauty to save, our brain overlooks all things but the beauty we wish to save. This s both highly romantic and highly stupid. For example, a young boy who loves a young girl. The young girl hates her house and wants to be rescued away. The young boy, seeing his opportunity to free the young girl, steals her away one night on a romantic whim, they move in together and...usually the story doesn't end with "and they lived happily ever after..."

    You see, I got lucky! There was no real BIG issue of rescuing I did for my wife Hilary. we started dating when we were 16...I stupidly broke up with her TWICE during our relationship. She took me back both times and now we are happily married, with a son on the way! However, I learned early on that I could be her hero in serving her, loving her and treating her right. We men have an innate saving complex so much so that when our woman have troubles, we try to rush in and fix it. I'm slowly learning when this is OK, and when I need to simply listen...

    What's my point? Where is Lorena Bobbit in here? Well, Lorena doesn't want to be rescued. She doesn't let the man be a man and save her. I said I got lucky, because my wife let's me save her, she allows me to be her hero and tells me I am such. But so many woman try to do it on there own all the time. Pushing away their husbands, not letting them be their hero.

    This is not to say at all that woman are weak and can't help themselves...I'm simply saying that when the World of Woman tell the World of Men: "I don't need you...EVER!" it emasculates them. Feminism is good and feminism is bad. The past 25 years, woman have been standing up for themselves more and more...which is good and needed...but they've also been emasculating men more and more. In feminists attempt to have respect, they've slashed at the men who truly wanted to rescue them, love them and be there hero. Men need to hear the words: "You're my hero" and when they don't they shut down.

    This world is full of emasculated men wandering around looking for the thing to make them men. They don't step up to rescue even their own children...it's sad.

    I am thankful that my wife lets me save her. Has she ever told me she doesn't need me? Yea, but she lets me be her hero. I'm a lucky guy!

    This is why fathers who have daughters love to be the hero to their daughters...they feel manly in the protecting role. This is why men call out their boys to protect their sisters. Men, it's OK to be men ad want to rescue your ladies. After all, the ultimate MAN, Jesus rescued us all, who are His Bride!




    If you are interested in reading Wild at Heart whether you are a man or woman, I encourage you to do so. Trust me it will help you understand manhood and boyhood with a clearer picture than without reading it. Either go to the library and pick it up, or click on the picture below, it'll take you to a link where you can buy it.